– Present Emerita - George Washington University
1968-2000 - Asst to Full Professor - Sociology, George Washington University
1968 Ph.D. - Sociology - University of California at Los Angeles with distinction
1953 R.N. - Nursing - Methodist Hospital School of Nursing, Los Angeles
2011 - Hambidge Center for the Creative Arts, Rabun Gap, Georgia
2010 - The Ragdale Foundation, Lake Forest, Illinois
2005-2009 - Hambidge Center for the Creative Arts, Rabun Gap, Georgia
2008 - Robert M. MacNamara Foundation, Westport Island, Maine
Dr. Phyllis A. Langton, Professor Emerita GWU
Words are my passion. It began as a young child when I lived in foster homes and a Children’s Home during the Great Depression in the 1930s and continued through the 1940s. I learned to write and tell stories to anyone who would listen as a way to connect with the people in my life. I didn’t understand why my friends and schoolmates lived a different life from mine: pretty clothes, bicycles, parents who picked them up in big, black cars, while I wore second-hand clothes and walked everywhere.
writing passion flourished during the early 1950s, when as a student nurse, I
learned to write narrative non-fiction in the form of 'nurse’s notes' on
patients' charts that described in detail: how the wound smelled and the color
of the wound drainage. Again, the medium was words.
My next writing journey began in the 1960s with my graduate education to earn a PhD in Sociology where the predominant medium was numbers. I learned a new form of thinking and writing that was heavily focused on the manipulation of quantitative data. Writing science was a challenge because I preferred words to numbers. But I accepted the challenge and evolved into a social science researcher, publishing books and articles as an academic sociologist. But my thirst for narrative non-fiction remained. This hunger led me to my current journey: creative non–fiction.
Early in 2000, my husband showed physical signs of a severe neurological disease: hand tremors, facial tremors, and slightly slurred speech. I began writing a journal of my observations. On Friday the 13th, 2000, he was diagnosed with ALS, commonly known as Lou Gehrig’s disease. I continued this journal throughout our journey. Journaling exposed me to myself. I found that sometimes I wanted the dying to happen sooner so I didn’t have to watch his pain and he would be free of this ugly disease, but then he would be free of me. The contradictions loomed large during the journey we shared.
In my late seventies, I continue to feed my passion as I write my memoirs, Last Flight Out: Living, Loving & Leaving, and Sweet Abandon. Belonging to a literary community helps me learn, grow, evolve, and connect with other human spirits––a precious gift.
Coming Soon... Sweet Abandon
What is it like to be born and face life when nobody wants you so they give you away? SWEET ABANDON is a story of how I was affected by my unwed mother’s abandonment of me at birth during the Great Depression. It is a story of how I found my way in the world without having known a mother-daughter relationship, without a father, and without a home. Teachers and librarians nurtured me towards a lifetime of achieving.
It is a story about my mother, who dipped in and out of my life starting when I was already in my teens. When my older sister died at age fifty-seven in 1987, my mother needed me to console her and care for her until her death, eight years later.
It is a story of how my mother’s choices inspired me to be more than I otherwise would have been; and how years after her death, I learned about the mother who abandoned me. I learned that she, too, was abandoned by her family as an unwed mother at age twenty. Ever after, she lived a life of secrets and lies. I was one of them.
How do you live the rest of your life when your doctor says, “You have Lou Gehrig’s disease, you probably have six months to live. Go out and have fun, do all the things you’ve wanted to do while you still can and prepare to die?”
continue to fear death and dying. Comedian Woody Allen said, “I’m not afraid of
death, I just don’t want to be there when it happens.” Phyllis Langton’s
memoir, Last Flight Out: Living, Loving, & Leaving, is a passionate
love story, one that deepens as she and her husband George Thomas live their
way into the experience of ALS, its unremitting losses and its surprising
gifts, with dignity, keen humor, a fighter pilot’s courage and a nurse’s
“I know what’s going to be on my death certificate.
That’s more than you can say,” George tells her after receiving his diagnosis.
How they are going to live the time that remains to them as a couple is also
not in question, for they are equally committed to savoring every minute,
respecting George Thomas's choices about what makes for a meaningful life, a
Supporting her husband's wishes is a moral as well as emotional choice on Langton's part, and definitely not always an easy one. As a medical sociologist, she invites her readers into an open discussion of some of these choices through a thoughtful discussion guide.
What readers are saying...
"Phyllis Langton has had as illustrious a career as anyone in academia, but she has taken infinite pains now to write a different kind of book. Her story of her husband's life with and death from ALS (Lou Gehrig's disease) yields many a valuable lesson, but this lesson above all: that dying, whatever its pains, can be both a negative and a positive experience. Here love and mortality, laughter and sorrow are all but inseparable, and their inseparability may help lessen a reader's fear of death and dying. Anyone who enjoys a deeply moving story will want to read this wondrous, indispensable book, and anybody who faces adversity, that is to say everybody, will need to read it."
Jeffery Paine––author of Father India, Re-enchantment, Adventures with the Buddha, and Tales of Wonder (with Huston Smith). Judge for the Pulitzer Prize and former vice-president of the National Book Critics Circle.
"Like many others, I've not been comfortable with the subject of death––the death of my loved ones or myself. How lucky we humans are to have Phyllis Langton's story as part of our lives. This moving book has allowed me to look death in the eye, and even find a way to laugh about it. Langton shows us that deep love and laughter make the sorrow and loss bearable, paving the way for this ultimate journey and beyond. . . ."
Jill Breckenridge––author of The Gravity of Flesh and Miss Priss and the Con Man.
“I couldn't put Last Flight Out down. I wanted it to go on so I could learn more about Phyllis and George and their story about facing ALS together. George had a terminal disease and he and Phyllis chose to live and love to the fullest! What an incredible message to read especially with a disease that takes and takes.”
Sharon J. Matland, R.N., M.B.A.––Vice-President of Patient Services, The ALS Association
“Who would have thought that disease can be a page-turner? But Phyllis Langton's bittersweet memoir of her fighter-pilot husband's last years shows that a good marriage can be as joyous in sickness as it is in health. Last Flight Out is a vivid, sparkling story about facing death with grace and high spirits.”
Mark Weston—author of Giants of Japan and Prophets and Princes: Saudi Arabia From Muhammad to the Present.
“Last Flight Out really touched my heart. As the hospice physician who cared for George, I found the description of the denial of his symptoms extremely compelling and riveting and it taught me to appreciate more deeply the psychological defenses which patients use to protect themselves against the perception of their own vulnerabilities. In addition, this memoir reminds all who read it of the paramount need to honor and respect a patient's wishes to control the conditions of care and medical treatment. George achieved a wonderful peace of mind as his disease relentlessly progressed. Everyone should be so fortunate to have such a resourceful and loving advocate for their partner.”
Dr. Henry Willner––Hospice Physician and Palliative Care Consultant, Capital Hospice.